Hey, that's why the services are there, right? It's like the bowl of fruit I keep on my kitchen table--It's there, in plain view, because I know and expect that people will get hungry. Nobody has to feel burdensome for accepting what is freely offered.

Like SD said, they chose to do this for a living. Finding a client burdensome is kind of like offering someone an apple and then being miffed when they accept it.

That said, I have felt like a burden before. And I just remind myself that, Kafka shorts aside, there's nothing noble or poetic about starving to death in front of a fruit bowl. It's just a waste.

I hope things get better for you soon