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Originally Posted by here today
I started pushing myself out to some meetups about 2 years ago. And it was very terrifying to start with. I just made myself start trying. I went to groups that had programs and presentations where I could be with people without having to say much or interact a lot. It's gotten easier and I've gotten to know some of the people in some of the groups. No real close friendship -- that's a ways away for me -- but at least I don't feel so alone all the time. And it's progress, that's better than it was.
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I reserved to go to a movie tomorrow, and another one for practicing the language the day after tomorrow, but I am always on the verge of canceling them. It makes me feel sick just the thought of going there, because people probably will assume that you are a normal person and outgoing, and expect you to initiate (and maintain) a conversation or interaction. Not me. I imaging myself leaving the groups for no reason if I go, and I will do if I feel anxious!!
Like in what groups there are little interactions?