I just found this site today. I've been looking for a place online to talk with others who have problems sexually with their partners. My relationship with my boyfriend is wonderful - except for the sex part. I never want it. It's been going on for over 6 months and it's hurting the rest of our relationship. He thinks it's him, that I don't want him. But if we're able to get it going, it's great. I know part of it comes from past abuse, but not all of it. I'm unhappy with my body too, but it wasn't a problem in the beginning. Is anyone else experiencing this? I just really need to reach out and know it's not just me....please help.