I get those pains too. Sometimes its daily, often only once or twice a month. Its been going on since my first flashback just over a year ago. I know the right thing to do is to talk to my T about it - but there is zero chance of that happening. I've read enough to understand what it is, and I will read enough to understand what I can do to stop them. But under no circumstances will I have any Dr go down there - metaphorically, or really!