I took him ocean swimming. He managed to keep up with me. I had my caretaker here and the gun handy if he was going to be weird.
We spent two days making and simmering a sauce for speg. He froze and brought parmasan cheese from Costco. He loved the dinner.

I also checked him out thru California State Bar ***. And his web site for legal practice and his Pilots Licence.
I had a lot of time. So it wasn't exactly like picking up a guy at a bar and bringing him home.

I just wanted this liaison to work. For here. For travel in his plane. For California. And Nevada. And Palm Springs. We both like cross country skiing. ( usually meet people who only like downhill.
We knew the same restaurants,hotels and points of interest. I used to live around the corner from his law office. Now I'm about 20 min away cuz in CA l live close to the beach.
I bought him fresh oranges to squeeze in electric thing. Cuz he said he didn't drink coffee.
I made him homade macaroni and cheese with some other cheese he brought.
His law cases were interesting to me cuz I'm a RE Broker. He's a RE Lawyer.

Online he was always polite. Me too. We were careful not to be too nosey.
Now he told me he has a grown son and ex wife.

So, he was what I was looking for. A local successful intelligent man who had at least as much money or more. We both love sports cars.

So that's why I fantasized about our future before I met him face to face.

You know the rest. At least I don't have to shave the back of the King of the sack!