ab, I am a quiet person in some respects. Striking out would not be something I would personally do. Partly due to my past with the men in my life (read "New Here" below for an thumbnail explanation of this if you like). I have had my fill of that kind of behavior in my life, so I personally would not resort to it.

Some of us are prissy or some other word that may apply, because of our emotional history. Don't let your brother influence you into doing things that don't feel right to you!!