I haven't followed entirely all of this thread, LOL! However, I want to clarify, my original question was is therapy inherently flawed, and nothing to do with bad therapists. I think the system itself is set up such that clients like myself will inevitably be hurt, regardless of the therapist and technique. Whether say, you are BudFox with a therapist who drops you entirely when you become attached, or even if you have one like mine, who is certainly more competent and has my best interest in mind.

Maybe it is inherently flawed, or maybe I am just a ticking time bombs in relationships, and everything hurts. Or maybe I'm just sulking that my therapist doesn't love me, and thinks that somehow being broken hearted yet again is going to magically heal my broken heart.