Right, thats what I am saying. I have told my H not to even ask me if I am ok, or whats wrong. I know he knows and I know he can see that something is wrong. That's all I need to push me over the edge.

Even taken it out of the bedroom, if I my eyes are watery and he asks whats wrong I will often times cry. I just would rather not. We don't have that kind of relationship for starters. He knows that if there is something going on and I want to talk to him I will tell him.