Damn Jennifer, this bites. I'm so very sorry you had to endure this horror and then an unsupportive family after the nightmare. Talk about insult to injury. ((((((((((Jennifer))))))))))))
I know there's nothing I can do or say to make you feel better and there's a long uphill battle for you to climb. I hope your Mom "hears" you. I hope she finally puts herself aside and allows you in and loves and comforts you because that is all you really want from her.