Every time me and my husband fight we have makeup sex. Every time something bad happens we have sex. I think his fetishes may be a little extreme sometimes but I still do it and I dont know why. He tells me that I dont have to but then it makes me feel less wanted by him, when I know that anything but the truth. I just dont like having to have sex everytime I feel guilty for something I have dont to him. He doesnt make me but in my mind I feel Like i have to. Its always been that way for me in my life like I lose someone I go and have sex, i fail on a test more sex, and if I feel like crap I turn to sex once again to make me feel better and that doesnt seem healthy to me. What can i do when I get upset so I dont feel like this. i have to admit though since getting with my husband that worthless feeling as somewhat went away! Im confused.