Thanks for the advice.. I guess what she does is a little more subtle though. My T had talked about possibilites of me being bipolar, and a quick talk about my mom and she said my mom has A LOT of the signs, so I simply asked my mom if she had ever spoken to her doctor about it, and she got very offended and started saying stuff like "i know your father has a lot of mental problems" etc, etc.. and while I know he's depressed, I also know he has no signs of manic stuff, so it felt like she was just being mean saying that.. that's just one example.

As for calling my T, she's not exactly trying to get information.. she just thinks I'm making stuff up or whatever about my mom to my T, so my mom wanted to tell her herself or something, but I really don't appreciate her doing that..