Omg, I thought it was just my family who had siblings pulling out kitchen knives on each other.

My twin thinks I was the golden one and he's the scapegoat. I think the other way around because males are strongly favoured in my culture and I am female and he got away with a lot as a male.

Perhaps the truth is in between - that the parents alternated among their children. I was favoured in some ways and scapegoated in others, and so was he - because both of us didn't conform to gender roles.