Hahaha, it's funny you mention this because last night I was just going through photos of myself from the last two years or so.

I don't feel comfortable posting any photos of myself on here, but the best I can describe it is...

Age 20-21 somewhat androgynous / effeminate. Medium length hair, no facial hair

Age 21 grew my hair out to shoulder length and began growing a beard. Eventually got my hair dyed to a lighter shade of brown/dirty blond.

Age 21.5 hospitalized, shaved beard, got my hair cut back to medium length in order to look like less of a disheveled crazy person.

Now: Cut my hair short (standard male style), alternate between sporting a rough goatee and clean-shaven depending on what type of week I'm having.