Hi Friends,

Many of you have heard me speak of my 34 year old relationship with my husband.

As I shared he started a new job this past Monday. Monday he came home very optimistic and positive. On Tuesday he told me he got in a little trouble, but seemed to rebound on Wednesday. His new employer had agreed before he started to give him off this Thursday, since we were sharing one vehicle.

Well I came home Thursday from my full day of teaching, and he told me he lost his job. I asked what happened, and he said they told him not to come back. Today he told me the "rest of the story". He said he had called and asked if he could have Friday off too.

Yikes!!!!!! I just don't understand what is going on with him.

He has continued to refuse to move, and consider any other vehicle besides his 4-door pick-up truck. I finally told him that if he didn't start to put what I wanted first, he was going to have to live without me. He said, "So you're putting your foot down?" Grrrrrrr.

I found two other promising jobs for him today. He's inquired about one already.

He has let me down so many times over the years with being able to hold onto jobs.

Anyone has any insights to offer, or has anyone else had to deal with this particular problem?

EJ