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I personally think that some guys might just act cluless, when they are not, so they can get out of giving to the one they are to love.

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I'm not doubting the truth of what you say, but that whole statement is just so cockeyed! If someone is in love, why would they want to get out of giving to the one they love? It's a paradoxical statement, isn't it?

Rhapsody, I'm sorry the counseling has been unsuccessful in the past. It does sound like individual counseling would be a very important avenue for him to try. If you put your foot down and go to live at your sister's for a while, I wonder if he might go to counseling then? A last ditch effort? But counseling is never that useful unless the person wants to go and is motivated to work.

(((hugs)))