Oh technigal, you have a lot on your plate! Please don't give up and please don't feel bad about the break. btw, just because you do not work outside the home does not mean you don't work. I suspect you work very hard. Are there any other resources for parents on children on the spectrum? Your city's large so maybe there's something? I really hope so. I understand it can be a very isolating experience.
I was never a mom, only a stepmom (& she was a wonderful kid) but it was still really challenging.
I wish you all the best. (& I also like your name - very clever!)