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Originally Posted by chickenfoot
Are you living with your current bf? I'd say that's an important step to get out of the way before even thinking of starting a family with him. Like live together for over a year. You reallllly don't know someone until you live with them.
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No he lives with his mom who has dementia so there are some limitations there but yeah I would want to live with him first and know him at least a year, preferably be married its just I feel some pressure with my age and all----but yeah that's good advice. IDK rational me says not to have a kid at all but irrational me is thinking I should, we'll see who wins this one. I think part of it is if I can't have a kid we should part ways now because he really really wants one or more so it's more about potential futures than solid realities right now.