Well, we both have similar anxiety issues. We're both college students. And I have a lot of good memories of him, thankfully, including for back in 2013 when I was just really angry a lot of the time (I think another part of why I was angry a lot in 2013 was kind of feeling like I was being left by the wayside and feeling kind of alienated) and I'd just go on walks with him. In terms of traits that can be positive and negative at the same time, we can get overly passionate about things. I guess in terms of needs I'm neglecting, it's just sort of giving myself some room to breathe and such. Distrusting my family. Things like that.

(Even the flashes I've had I'm not so sure about. Maybe once I find coping techniques and things like that, things'll get clearer)

And no, it's not redundant in the slightest. I guess it's kind of a matter of allowing myself to breathe. And...probably more.