Sometimes guys need to get over some nerves and get some feedback from a patient partner.

I would be very curious on his view of the hookup. You're really thinking that much less of him after 2.5 years because in his 50s he needs someone to work with him in the sack?

I like you story and your posts. I just am not sure I'd complain so much about a lover after the first meeting. People often grow as part of a relationship and are far from perfect on the first hookup.

Good luck,

moogs