This move to the farm in KY has been a huge step and adjustment for you. Is he going to join you there, or are you actually separating/divorcing? That in itself is a huge step!
I can see why you're aggravated about the DVD club. Never a good idea to get into those programs. I've been in CD clubs a while back and got things I didn't want. I hope you resolve this issue, even if it means cancelling it yourself!
Love,
Patty