Thanks. Yes, thatīs also strange, the inconsistency. She has about the same time between sessions every time and it also wouldnīt take long to follow me to the door and say goodbye.
As you say this makes me feel worried and sad and I also feel that perhaps her indifference is because she doesnīt like me in some way.
I think Iīll have to just leave next time, if she just sits at her desk I wonīt be nicer to her than she is to me so to speak. I donīt see why I should say goodbye and thank her for the session when she hardly turns to me when Iīm about to leave.
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Originally Posted by ilikecats
My T always walks with me to do the door and says goodbye and take care and stuff. I'd feel super weird if she suddenly didn't do this one day, and just went to her desk. I'm sorry your T is inconsistent with the way she says goodbye - or doesn't. I think she should just do one thing all the time, whether that's saying goodbye or not. My pdoc doesn't walk me to the door or anything, he just says bye and stays at his desk and says to leave the door open. I don't mind this, because it's consistent. But if my T were to sometimes say bye and sometimes not, I'd feel really bad and worried about the times she did not.
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