Hey, he's being a full-time jerk......having said that, i believe that you are enabling him in his jerkness.

Marriage is a partnership. How involved has he been in the full term of your marriage being your partner? How many years has he been childish and petulant about getting what he wants, his way?

By helping him find jobs and putting up with his ****, you're in a way saying "it's okay that you behave this way"......you don't have to say that out loud for him to pick up on it.

He is an adult and he should be getting his own jobs. And having the nerve to ask for two days off in a week that he started a new job is pretty ballsy, i'd say. BUT, he's been acting this way for ages and i bet he sees no real reason to change.

I vote for letting him go his way and you go yours. xoxoxo pat