Thank you for your piece on this, I'm really grateful for you having taking the time to reply with your thoughts.

He's coming over tonight so I'm going to talk to him then but I'm just so friggin hurt by him. I can't get the idea out of my head that he's also lying about doing it just 'once or twice' since. In my eyes if he's done it in the past before me, and it's behaviour that he is repeating on the space of over 6 months it's just logical that he's done it a lot more than a twice and he's lying to cover himself again. It's totally knocked my trust to even believe him about that. I don't. My instincts are screaming at me that I know he's done it more times than that and not told me about it.

He's a good boyfriend otherwise and I do believe that he doesn't hide things or lie about anything else.