I understand what you're saying, selfy. It's pretty much like that for me at home, too. My dad thought I was doing it through some kind of self-indulgent melodrama and that I needed more self-control. I don't talk to him about things for the same reason that you don't talk to your mum: I'd just be told to 'get on with it' or 'pull yourself together' or 'don't be such a moron' etc...