I think you should be able to feel safe to ask your T anything. I would especially bring up the subject of transference sooner rather than later, some T's actually "depend" on transference to help the process.
Talking to a T about our therapeutic relationship is the hardest thing I've ever talked about in therapy. In a way, therapy just added another issue to deal with in this respect...something I really didn't see coming.
Welcome to PC!
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