Hi ItJustIs, you are very kind to want to check in with your therapist about her comfort level. I'd hope she's fine with it since it is important, especially to you right now. My T is wonderful and is very comfortable talking about anything, including transference whether we call it that or not. It seems like the therapeutic relationship is the important thing anyway so I really wish you luck with this. Would you be OK giving us an update on how it goes?
Welcome to PC btw.