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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
How can I get anything I need anymore? Nothing is going to change btwn her and me. She won't talk to me. I guess the only change will be the outcome of the grievance. I'm not sure that will change how I feel about her.
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See, this is why it's hard to forgive in a vacuum, when you have no relationship with the one who hurt you anymore.
Maybe forgiveness is too big an idea right now. Maybe your therapist should think more in terms of letting go. (I think they are different things.). Maybe, too, you should wait till the outcome of the grievance is known, because that's going to affect your feelings.