I don't necessarily believe in forgiving. But I believe in accepting what it is. Some things cannot be changed, we just have to move on.

My grandparents are holocaust survivors, they lost all their families. Parents, siblings etc Most certainly forgiving anyone was never in a books but they moved on with their lives living well and raising kids well and being good people. They did deal with survivor guilt but overall they lived happy enjoyable lives. With letting go not forgiving per se.

I know it's extreme example. But maybe you can move on and live your life the best you could accepting that you cannot change neither the past nor other people.

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