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Originally Posted by eskielover
Sounds like a personality issue IMO. My H was a nice, intelligent person but he also had an attitude & personality that could come across as a jerk when in came to really interfacing with him on a one to one personal level...he couldn't hide behind that nice, intelligent outer shell that was all people saw until they really had to interface with him & deal with the attitude issues.
Maybe you aren't really coming across to others as nice & intelligent if many other people are having the same problem with you....maybe something to look at with your T though they are very careful about dealing with issues like this.
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Well, personality doesn't really change. It is pretty much ingrained in you from your early childhood. So am I supposed to accept that I'm the problem and everyone else is right to hate me?
However, I don't really know what you mean by "attitude issues". I think a person would be able to tell if they are being mean to other people.
And no I do not have a "nice, intelligent outer shell", I am a nice, intelligent person at the core. Saying dumb things because you aren't a quick thinker may make me appear unintelligent, but it certainly does not mean I actually am. Same goes for coming off as rude because I am socially awkward.