Im 34 and still feel VERY unimportant and unlovable.

Im sorry you have to go through all that, especially the "messed up" part cuz you questioning your sexuality or even confused about it isnt "messed up" in the least!

Not sure if emotional abuse can be reported but therapy wise, why not the school counselor? When i was in high school (our school cop, counselor, & principle knew stuff was happening to me, i just refused to admit it) but they pulled me out of class to talk to some lady. Apparently they were a set of LMHCs (licenced mental health counselor...and whom my therapist today is) that volunteered to helped some of the kids. Maybe something like that would be at school.

Either way, id def talk to the school counselor, and if you are like me...find a youth center to seek refuage in to be away from home more.

Also keep the sexuality curiousity to yourself, not that its wrong but they apparently arent open to it. Why leave yourself open to more emotional abuse?