As long as he keeps replying (and you don't think it is getting worse) I think it is rather harmless (and if he responds with such irregularity, he might better know you than you think). I rarely have an obsession with anyone for more than one manic episode (if at all), but I do relate.
Maybe you can make a list of things you want to communicate and then send them all in one message. Let things ripe: you may find yourself crossing off many thing you really don't have to bother him with. Doesn't often work much for me, but I still try and always works somewhat.
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