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Originally Posted by Shadix
Well, personality doesn't really change. It is pretty much ingrained in you from your early childhood. So am I supposed to accept that I'm the problem and everyone else is right to hate me?
However, I don't really know what you mean by "attitude issues". I think a person would be able to tell if they are being mean to other people.
And no I do not have a "nice, intelligent outer shell", I am a nice, intelligent person at the core. Saying dumb things because you aren't a quick thinker may make me appear unintelligent, but it certainly does not mean I actually am. Same goes for coming off as rude because I am socially awkward.
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I see these types of defensive replies in person, in my own community where I live. It's something that a professor that I had worked with me on for poise.
Since the thread is about trying to understand what the pattern is. I'll point out how this reply does come accross defensive. Anger seeped in. But it is an adjustment that can be made that won't push others away in the future. I mean this objectively and kindly.
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