Hello & Welcome, SarahK.
Yes, this is bad, even cruel timing.
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Originally Posted by SarahK
My boyfriend is a recovering alcoholic. He’s never relapsed. But he said my depression was too much for him to handle and was jeopardizing his sobriety.
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I'm not an assessor of relationships. To me, this indicates the basic relationship is "high risk" regardless of events.
You've recently suffered at least two major life-stressors: relationship rejection and career/job loss. What's in your self-care bag that has helped in the past? Do you need more active support than you are receiving to get back on your feet?
I see you've found the Addictions forum. Please consider also asking over in the
Relationships & Communication forum.
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mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.