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Originally Posted by Shadix
Well, personality doesn't really change. It is pretty much ingrained in you from your early childhood. So am I supposed to accept that I'm the problem and everyone else is right to hate me?
However, I don't really know what you mean by "attitude issues". I think a person would be able to tell if they are being mean to other people.
And no I do not have a "nice, intelligent outer shell", I am a nice, intelligent person at the core. Saying dumb things because you aren't a quick thinker may make me appear unintelligent, but it certainly does not mean I actually am. Same goes for coming off as rude because I am socially awkward.
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Honestly, your response here does come across as rude-- not socially awkward or defensive, but rude and passive aggressive. Even if you think the poster is off base, they are trying to offer you help and feedback and you attacked them in a passive aggressive manner. This is probably what is happening in person. If people think you are rude or passive aggressive, they probably won't want to socialize with you. Why wouldn't you be open to changing your behavior? A lot of people don't realize they are behaving this way, and it could probably be fixed with a little bit of work.