condescending and presumptuous...

descriptions of me again...

keeping threads 'on topic' kind of precludes the working through of differences...

this thread is five pages long now. aren't there many thoughts on pornography already? would the thread have gotten as long as it has if people hadn't thought a little more laterally about the topic? are peoples lateral thoughts about the topic preventing people from posting thoughts in response to the initial question?

online transference is an interesting topic... the way people interpret what is said...

am i to understand that it is okay for someone here to call another person 'condescending', 'presumptuous', 'disrespectful', 'insulting', etc etc etc.

because if it is then i simply won't post to these boards again. i thought these boards were meant to be a safe place for support. not a place where people can feel free to come and describe your behaviour (or character) in a malevolent way. i don't think many people would stand for that IRL and i see no reason why i should stand for it here. i have feelings too. i've tried to be sensitive to the feelings of other people. but i have feelings too.