this is no longer a community topic, though alexandra. it's become a conversation to a few and way off-topic. it can still be discussed, absolutely. however, it needs to be in PM or another thread.

if you have further response to me, please put it in PM.

i'd like only to see further posting to be on topic with the original conversation. further off-topic posting is subject to removal.

please send a PM or begin a new thread.

KD