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I'm here for you whenever and for whatever, should you need me!

Have you thought of feeding this information to your mother? Think about the information, get the proof you need, have your answers ready and give it to her... either by increments or all at once. Whatever you decide. Don't let her get away with playing the victim unless she can prove to you that she indeed WAS a victim herself. It doesn't sound like it though.

Love you!!