There are theatrics, and exagerations here, and yes it is frustrating. However, that is part of life.

In my situation, I have come to realize, through therapy and my DID skills group, that it's very important to open up dialogue between 'parts' so that we can all get on the same page. It is common for some to have a phobia, if you will, about other parts, or no awareness at all. It is encouraged, in my recovery, to know that all parts exist for a valid reason. It behooves me to embrace these various parts, or at the very least, acknowledge their existence as relevant to survival, so that I may better know and understand them. It's part of my recovery.