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Originally Posted by littleowl2006
I still can't get over this thing with the two sides - how on the one hand he can be his loving and truthful self, and on the other be a total jerk about so many things. I don't understand this.
The next weeks are going to be real tough :/
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How can he so loving on one side? Well have you ever seen how a guy acts when he's at a bar trying to get a girl? [emoji23] they will say, do anything to get you or get you back. And the more you fall for it, the harder they go. Now now I'm not saying ALL men do this but I do have a older brother. I've seen it with my own eyes and it gets sad when they are trying to get something from you. And as far as the other side, he obviously can't control these bad actions and the same thing goes... The more you fall for it, the more they press. You just have to stand up for yourself and let him see that you're not going to take it. You deserve respect as much as the next girl. What he's doing is manipulation. And yes, some women can do it too so it's not just the fault one one sex. It's people in general unfortunately. I've had women treat me like garbage too and it doesn't stop until I say something and then they don't know what to do! And if you do have a problem speaking up then simply ignore him. Stop answering calls texts ect. Block the number if you have to.
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