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Old Feb 29, 2016, 04:44 PM
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I don't know if this is one of those posts that should have a trigger warning or not.... so just in case, I am warning... LOL...

Ok, I know many people have talked about telling t's about abusive things that have happened, but HOW?!?!!?!

I have been with my t for a couple of years now and he is fabulous, but we are supposed to begin some type of imagery to revisit situations from my past/childhood. I have told him vaguely that "something/stuff" happened and he knows what that meant. We did have one session where we did an exercise about addressing one of the people, but he didn't make me say what happened and I don't know if it was because I was having so much trouble just being in the exercise or if it was because he doesn't want details and I was hesitant to say anything. Just that exercise flared I didn't know what to say or what he meant and even if I did,, didn't know if I could say it. Now we are about to go again and I keep thinking about how I know what he is asking and if more then "something/stuff" is what is needed,,,, how the heck do you say that to another person, even if it is a t????????

HELP
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