((((((((((((((((( confused4ever ))))))))))))))))))

You're very brave to do such difficult work. I commend you there. To continue it when you get home is wonderful! It is draining, confusing, hard.

Your little girl is hurting so much...hurting and alone in isolation...no one understands or cares to where she's stuck.

She doesn't know that YOU care. YOU want to understand and love her!

Talking will come but she has to trust you to believe her and comfort her...keep her safe because she vulnerable. When she feels safe, she'll talk to you.

Help her feel warm, safe and show her your heart...that it wants to help.

What would you do for a child you saw in that position in a room? What would you say to her? What would you try to do to console her? Do that for your little girl...say that to your little girl...time and time and time again for all the hurts...

Love,

KD