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Originally Posted by nottrustin
Could you explain to him that you are having a hard time talking about it? If he knows what you meant then he may be okay with just knowing that. I was pretty much the same way as you. She told me she didn't need to know details. She didn't feel the details were important unless I wanted her to know. Over time I have given her a few details, but she still doesn't really know what actually happened and what didn't..We have been dealing with this issue for about 5 years.
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We have spent a long time trying to work around actually dealing with it and my t feels this is the needed thing and I actually agree. I want desperately to be free of this stuff and have never shared with anyone and I do think that this might finally be the chance fir me. I just can't figure out how to make myself get it out and don't want to say something he didn't intend for me to dump. I understand how this process is suppose to help and I am going it will bring the relief. .. buuuuutt... hooow