Agree way too much theatrics here. Thats one of the reasons i rarely start my own topic.
We have a system where everyone is very separate. It is not chaotic for us. Its just how it is. We enjoy spending time with each other. We also fight. It feels like just being in one room with lots of people, some you like and some you dont.we are separate people so we know what each other wants, likes, doesnt like- just like people do with friends.we also dont always know whats going on, we do have occassional blackouts and missing time just like we did when we were younger. Now it mostly just happens under stress.