Who are you to pass judgement on someone's marriage. I didn't come here for that I need support not further negativity and no one else would take kindly to it either. I'm beginning to think I'm not meant to have support in my life right now because this really isn't helping me and everywhere else I turn and try to build a support system it never works out. I feel like I'm giving up on trying to be understood and loved except by my immediate family and let me tell you it's terrible living life feeling this lonely