Hello, I am also extremely sensitive and can become immobilized and devastated by what people say to me. I try to stand at a distance and not take everything to heart, but then it feels as though I am not acknowledging my feelings and I am disassociating a bit. In addition, I do not trust my own feelings as being accurate for the situation I am in. I do not know if I am in a bad relationship or not because every week, even daily I can vacillate from being in love to thinking I should leave. It is crazy! Does anyone else relate to this? Please respond if you do.