Is there really any value in such a question, is this sort of subject genuinely more than an attempt to coerce nonsensical responses designed simply to show how foolish we can be as small minded individuals.

What is more valuable or important, to figure out what a 'guy' is supposed to be or to continue trying to figure out who 'you' are supposed to be as a person.

Me, I couldn't care less how I am supposed to behave as a man, I want to treat people the same way I want them to treat me, with kindness and understanding, if that makes me a 'guy' then great and if it doesn't make me a 'guy' then I couldn't care less.