I don't usually like to put my personal business out there, but I have had some things on my mind lately. My significant other and I have been together for nearly a year now. Like all couples we have our trials, but lately it seems like we have been having more trial than usual. I always end up feeling guilty about something because I hurt his feelings over different things. It isn't my intention and maybe I just have thicker skin, but I feel like when he makes jokes with me it is okay, but not when I make jokes with him. I feel like he can be really sensitive sometimes and it always has me on edge because he is the last person I want to offend or hurt in any way. Am I wrong to be frustrated when I feel he is being too sensitive about some things? I don't mean to be and I would never voice those frustrations out loud to him, but it bothers me having to keep it all inside sometimes. I know this post may be trivial, but any thoughts or words of advice are welcome. thanks!
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