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Originally Posted by _Mouse
No its not. I was abandoned and neglected and therapy had helped me understand that it wasn't I that was unloveable, it was people in my life that were incapable is love.
The caring from T has changed that inner message.
Therapist doesn't have to be all hugs and kisses and sworn declarations of mature love. It just has to contain a skilled T and a client whose willing and able to think.
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I just wanted to say I agree with your message/post and that this is also what I have learned that is most helpful in healing the wounds of whatever has brought to therapy in the first place .