Wow.. Ok. I am never married and don't have kids (bf has 2 kids and one lives with us tho). Only thing is our age and parent relationships. But I'll give this a shot lol. I would stay away from your mom. There is no good there from what you have told. She reminds me a lot of my father and I try to stay away from him especially lately. I did go over there yesterday only to leave within 5 damn minutes upset! So no more. I can't handle his controlling, critical behavior in my mental situation right now. And like your mom, he doesn't believe in MI, meds, therapy ect. He thinks all my problems are simply in my head and that I'm using my MI as an excuse to fail in life. And you don't need the stress! You seem like you're doing great yourself and being around her isn't going to bring anything positive!

Your title says you're stressing about visiting home though. You said a little bit about your sister. But if she's not going to add anything positive to your life either then I would leave the relationship to phone calls only. But if you're trying to mend bridges and she usually doesn't act like this then sure, give the visit a try but maybe stay at a hotel and not her home? That way if things do go bad, you have somewhere to escape to. I hope I helped somewhat and good luck!

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