Do you have children? I have four and I know for certain till the day I die no matter how many years it may take off my life I will care for them to to the best of my ability. Don't feel guilty for what your father offers. Do the best you can. Your dads health can also be a very good reason for you to continue trying. Example, on my bad days my kids and hubby keep me going. I'm with jupiter3 put forth that effort and the rest will come. One good day at a time that's all we can do. [emoji175]

No matter how small, a positive change deserves to be celebrated!